Curl Pattern Curiosity/Frustration

Many natural haired women make YouTube on their curl type or pattern. My only problem is that I have more than one, more than two, and I think more than three curl patterns. So I have been trying different products and styles to see what works best in my "CURL MIXTURE". I watch so many YouTube and seems like I am the only one with multiple curl patterns. It makes me so upset that my nape area is curly and silky, my middle is wavy and a little ruff, and my front is curly and springy on one side and wavy and straight on the other side. HOW DOES THIS HAPPEN you may ask? Well I don't have an answer, maybe it was from the "CHI IRON" that was used for 2 yrs when I used to wash, condition, blow dry, and flat iron...or maybe I was born this way...either way I am trying my hardest to be happy and content with what I have to work with. So I have two options....let it grow to see if it was heat damage or cut one whole side off and let it grow back....""""""remember I transitioned....never shaved my whole head....so I just cut every permed end off""""""" Well I guess I will let it grow out until the end of this year and then decide what is best.....If you have any advice or have a similar situation please please please comment!!